Would I marry this man all over again ?

Would I marry this man all over again ?

He always solves my problems ... big and small ...

 ... i trust him to give me solutions to problems at office ... help me with my weight loss ... give me frank opinion on my hairstyle...

I am so much a part of his life that not only he doesn't  listen when we are talking ... but he doesn't listen even when we are chatting online ;)

He doesn't like plunging necklines ...tight t shirts ...  ON Me :)

He is ever ready to be my driver

He is also ready to be my baby sitter so that I can go to parlour for hours

He criticized  my cooking  just one time ... and learnt a lesson

He keeps reminding (pestering) me to go to the gym 'cause i was a fool to pay lump sum money'

He gets worried if he doesn't hear from me

when he tells me his plans for life where i am always there by default,i sense the deep trust he has in me ... 

He can't understand my silence but he tries to act as if he does ;)

His jokes make me go mad !!!

His love notes start with "Hi how are u " 

I have this whole bunch of printouts with me ... emails and ecards that my husband had sent to me before our marriage. The pages have turned yellow , but there is a special warmth in them which comes with ten years of marriage .. ten years of trust ...ten years of fights over silly things ... tears ..laughter... fun ... problems ... ten years of togetherness 

So would I marry this man all over again ? YES !

Love is about realizing that an imperfect person can make your life perfect.

Love me..when I sip on your coffee.I only want to make sure it tastes just right for you.


Love me...when I am mad.I just want you to say I am the best for you.


Love me...when my annoying habits drive you nuts,you have them too.


Love me...when my cooking is bad,I keep trying for you.


Love me...when I make you watch corny love dramas while the sport is on,I just want to share these moments with you.


Love me...when I spend hours to get ready,I only want to look my best with you.


Love me...when my eyes water suddenly,I actually had a thought of loosing you.

lets face it...

why are we blaming the poor heart all the time?


wrong emotions--we start blaming it for being illogical!
vulnerabilities--we start blaming it for being oversensitive!
falling in love---we start taking pride or blaming it again!


they say---
the heart skips
the heart jumps
the heart glows
the heart fears
the heart rebels
the heart dreams
the heart breaks


they say----
the heart is stubborn
the heart is kind
the heart is brave
the heart is blind
the heart is sweet


they say----
the heart understands the language of love
the heart understands no logic


they say----
"listen to your heart"
"your heart will give u all the answers"
"the heart is always right"
"your heart knows best"


just when exactly are we going to accept the fact that the 'heart' is only a goddamn organ with no relation to love, logic, sentiments and emotions or the lack of it??!

Just some things I want to say...

Sometimes everyone wants to be loved and needed. 

There are no problems that cannot be fixed. Some people are the ones who are beyond repair.

Unless you have had your heart broken and shredded to tiny sharp shards, you won't even realise that it's there.

When I first met him I looked for a lot of reasons to justify being with him. Today, I can't seem to find one reason to not be with him.

Hope is a funny thing. So funny that at times it makes you want to cry.

Its so scary that my future is intricately linked to uncertainty.

I'm not looking for answers or solutions. I just want someone to distract me from this crap for a while.

If only I could reach out to my skull and pull out this mulch bag titled memories.

I now seem to be allergic to the word called love.

I probably need to take a blither approach to life.

Sometimes the more you know about others, the lesser you want to reveal about yourself.

Its very important for people to know that as they are taking time deciding something, there is someone out there patiently waiting for the answer.

Life can and never will be smooth sailing.

I'm much stronger than I thought I could possibly be.

Paths always cross. Its up to us to decide if we want to move forward or not.

Some truths are better left buried. Deep.

I'm an eternal optimist. I'll fight until God gives up.